Monday, August 1, 2016

Zach Adams, Class of 2010 Passed this Weekend

Zach Adams Class of 2010 


Zach Adams, who graduated from Southwest High School in 2010, died this past weekend. He was in a car accident two weeks ago.

You may remember him (and his Dad, Alex) from his chess championships. He was also a SW Wrestler.  He was a wonderful young man Zach was studying to be a teacher. 

We share in the loss.  Final arrangements have not been announced.  Please send thoughts to family and friends. 

Protecting the Environment


Once upon a time the front entrance to Southwest High School appeared to be coming together and getting ready for the start of school.  And the cranes arrive and dug a huge hole!

The catch basin is to protect the environment.  All the rain water for the roof will drain off into this catch basin and eventually move on into storm sewers at a safe level. All of this to protect the water ways, rivers and creeks.

The project is moving along> The completion date is August 25, 2016.




Southwest High School ONLY Starting Dates 2016-2017



The start dates for Southwest High School ONLY:

2016-17 School Year
Orientation for 9th grade – Class of 2020 – Thursday, September 1 --  8:05 am
               Orientation for 9th grade – Class of 2020 – Friday, September 2 – 8:05 am

Starting date for all classes – Class or 2017, 2018, 2019 and 2020 - grade 9-12 – Tuesday, September 6 – 8:05 am

Go-To-Cards
Go To cards will be available for pick-up by students from 9:00 am - 3:00 pm on the 29th, 30th, 31st, and 1st. Also from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm on the 2nd.  


Sunday, July 31, 2016

7 Tips for Sleep-Deprived Teens This School Year

7 Tips for Sleep-Deprived Teens This School Year


By Jane Parent and Diana Simeon
Does anyone get enough sleep? Are all of our teens sleep-deprived? More than one study has found that the majority of teenagers are not getting anywhere near the recommended 8.5 to 9.5 hours a night, thanks to a variety of factors, including school start times before 8:00 a.m.

Sleep is a cornerstone of wellness for all of us, but especially for teenagers. “Getting by with six or seven hours is fraught with peril,” says Dr. John Schuen, a pulmonologist with Spectrum Health in Grand Rapids, Michigan, who’s worked on pediatric sleep issues for more than two decades. Indeed, the list of risks for sleep-deprived teens is long—and ugly. Not only do tired teenagers do worse at school, they’re also at risk for higher rates of obesity, mental health issues, and substance abuse issues.

Sleep-Deprived Teens

This school year, why not help sleep-deprived teens get more sleep? We’ve got 7 top tips to help.

1. No screens at bedtime

You’ve heard this before, but the bottom line is that screens and sleep do not mix. In fact, there’s mounting evidence that screens cut into sleep by as much as an hour per night. The truth is that for many teenagers it can be tempting to be on their devices late into the night. What’s more, the light emitted by a screen is like a wake-up call for our brains. “It stimulates the centers in our brain that help us stay alert during the day,” explains Schuen. Some teenagers can turn off their devices on their own. “Others may need a parent to step in,” he says.

2. Limit sleepovers to Friday nights

Think of staying up late at a sleepover like flying coast to coast. Your teenager will be jet-lagged. “Even though you can physically move your sleep clock by staying up later, your natural sleep clock can only move about an hour a night,” explains Schuen. “That’s why we get jet lag.” So by sticking with Friday nights for sleepovers, your teen has Saturday and Sunday night to recover before having to get up for school on Monday.

3. No caffeine

Teenagers are much more sensitive to caffeine than adults or even twenty-somethings. “Caffeine will last in a teenager’s system for hours longer,” explains Schuen. So talk to your teenager about the ramifications of drinking caffeinated beverages, like coffee, soda, and especially so-called “energy” drinks—Monster, Red Bull, Rockstar—which can contain high, sometimes dangerous, levels of caffeine.

4. Get back to a school schedule a couple of weeks early (and stick with it)

Especially if your teenager has gotten into the habit of staying up late and sleeping in over the summer, be proactive about moving his sleep clock back well before the first day, recommends Dr. Sasha Carr, a licensed psychologist and sleep expert with Off to Dreamland Sleep Services. “I recommend getting back into a reasonable schedule about two weeks before school starts, so it’s not a shock to the system.” On the weekends during the school year, encourage your teenager not to sleep in too long on Saturday and Sunday mornings. That will make Monday tough.

5. No naps

Some sleep-deprived teens are in the habit of staying up late, rising early for school, and making up their sleep deficit with an afternoon or early-evening nap. It’s a bad idea. “Napping during the day is not helpful because it fragments sleep,” Schuen explains. “Instead, encourage your teenager to stick it out and go to bed earlier.” In other words, 30 minutes more sleep in the afternoon is not as beneficial as adding 30 minutes of sleep at night. “Your teenager will be much better rested if she adds that sleep at the end of the day,” says Schuen.

6. Have a bedtime ritual

You can’t control when you fall asleep, but you can create an optimal environment for sleep to take place. “Create a ritual that signals to your brain and body that it’s time for sleep,” recommends Carr. Turn all computers, smart phones and devices off at least 30 minutes prior to going to bed. Take a warm shower. For girls, Carr recommends something as simple as a lotion with a particular scent that she only uses at bedtime as a cue to the brain that it is time for sleep. For boys, perhaps changing into clothes that he only wears at bedtime.

7. Beds are only for sleep

Your son or daughter’s bed is not the home office. “There is this idea of `stimulus control’ which suggests that time spent in bed should be associated with sleeping, and that any activity in bed other than sleep is counterproductive to sleep and can actually condition someone to have problems sleeping,” explains Carr. “You do not want your brain to associate your bed with work or studying or any other activities that stimulate rather than calm your brain at night.” Instead, prepare a pleasant, comfortable separate space that is conducive to studying so your teenager associates a bed with sleep—and only sleep.

http://yourteenmag.com/physical-health/sleep-deprived-teens?utm_source=Weekly+Emails&utm_campaign=b41cc4e916-Expert_Advice_from_Your_Teen_Media&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_418d895dd9-b41cc4e916-408308113&mc_cid=b41cc4e916&mc_eid=b14e1d3700

Friday, July 22, 2016

Greatly Improved Back of School - Door 15 at Beards Circle



What a difference!  The pictures are of the back of Southwest High School.  The location is Door 15 and the north side of the commons in the center section.  I am standing on Beards Circle.

More walking space, increased green space and more attractive entrance to the school.  Many students and visitors enter through this back entrance (Door 15) because of parking and the arrival of special needs buses.

Bicycle racks will be installed before the beginning of school for all the riders.  A new fence with decorative plants is installed on the north side of the parking lot off to the left (east) of the pictures.  This area also contains the loading docks for the school and kitchen.  The trash and recycling dumpsters will be moved to this location and out of the west parking lot.


Thursday, July 21, 2016

10 Tips to Fight Fair with Your Teen


10 Tips to Fight Fair with Your Teen

by Jane Parent
Teens really know how to push your buttons, don’t they? And they don’t care about fighting fair – they fight to win. Parents can use a disagreement with their teen, however, as a teachable moment on how to fight fair.

“Teens can be emotional and unreasonable,” says Dr. Brittany Barber Garcia, PhD, a pediatric psychologist. “Their raging hormones, egocentric world view, and developing brains can put them on a collision course with adults.” But even in the heat of the moment, advises Dr. Barber Garcia, parents can model positive behavior for their teens by showing them how to handle conflict face-to-face and disagree respectfully. They can also provide teens with the emotional feedback they need to learn how to moderate their own behavior.

Tips to Fight Fair

In those heated moments, says Dr. Barber Garcia, remember these 10 tips:
  1. Keep your cool. As a parent, how you act is even more important than what you say. Instead of throwing fuel on the fire by getting angry, try to stay calm as much as possible. Take a breath. Think before you speak. Don’t let your emotions get the upper hand.
  2. Zip it. “It’s really important to think about your own reactions in the moment,” says Dr. Barber Garcia. Stick to the facts, provide rationale for your position and avoid name-calling or accusations such as, “You’re so lazy.” “We don’t mean to do it,’ says Dr. Barber Garcia, “but it happens.”
  3. Listen. Sure, some things aren’t up for negotiation—but your teens want the chance to be heard. So show respect for their opinions.
    "Your teens want the chance to be heard. So show respect for their opinions."
    Demonstrate that you are listening by reflecting back what they said. For example, say, “I’m hearing you say …” or, “It sounds to me like …”
  4. Ignore your buttons. Oh yeah. Your kids know exactly how to get you riled up and push your buttons. Remember, you’re the adult. Try to let things slide instead of taking the bait.
  5. Don’t get personal.“Teens will be very quick to hear something accusatory—’You made this mistake,’ ‘You did this wrong,’” cautions Dr. Barber Garcia. Get in the habit of focusing on your own experience by using “I” statements instead of “you” statements. “I feel hurt when I cook a nice meal and my family won’t eat it.”
  6. Be real about emotions. Sarcasm is a big “no,” says Dr. Barber Garcia, because it undermines true emotions. Even a nervous laugh or smile can be unintentionally hurtful.
  7. Meet in the middle. Sometimes you need to compromise so everyone can win. Think in advance about where you’re willing to give up some ground so you and your teen can both feel good about a decision.
  8. Table the discussion. When emotions are running high and the argument is going nowhere, don’t be afraid to end the conversation temporarily with a promise to come back to it another time—maybe after dinner, or on Saturday morning.
    "Don’t be afraid to end the conversation temporarily with a promise to come back to it another time."
    Sometimes parents may need a timeout together to talk and make sure they’re on the same page. It’s okay to take a step back if you need time to work things through. This will show your teen it’s preferable to calm down and come back to the conversation with a fresh perspective, but …
  9. Check in. Don’t let angry feelings fester, and don’t withhold love after an argument. Give teens time to figure out how they feel, and then check in with them to see if they’re ready to reconnect. If they’re still hurt or confused and it seems they’re not yet ready to reconnect, respect that. But after some time has gone by—maybe a day or two—circle back and work with them to repair the relationship.
  10. Don’t over-apologize. If you really lost control or said things you shouldn’t have, you may need to say you’re sorry, and it’s good to model for your children when it’s appropriate to apologize. But you don’t need to apologize for disagreeing or having a fight.
Dr. Brittany Barber Garcia, PhD, is a pediatric psychologist with Spectrum Health’s Helen DeVos Children’s Hospital in Grand Rapids, Michigan.