Stop Bullying

Secondary Bullying Reminders
Middle and high school students ranging in ages 11 – 16 responded similarly to elementary age students. What is noticeably different is the use of technology in bullying behavior and responses to bullying behavior. Students and youth in this age group are also more likely to make an attempt to address the behavior on their own or with the help of a friend before turning to an adult for help.

Do you know what bullying looks like?

When a “let’s hate ____” petition is being circulated and your name is at the top
When most of the kids in the math class got a text to make mooing noises at another kid as she makes her way to her desk
Putting a book bag in one seat, your feet in another, and a purse in the next empty chair to keep certain, other kids from sitting at your table
Calling someone a name every time you see them, all day, every day
Going out of your way to bump or shove the same kid in the hallway, at the lockers, anywhere you can get away with it
Posting means things on a FB wall
Tweeting rumors

Do you know what to do if you see a classmate being bullied?

Tell them to chill
Walk away
Tell a teacher
Stop by the counselor’s office
Call or text my mom and dad

Do you know what to do if you are being bullied?
Tell them to back off
Keep walking
Talk to a teacher or coach
See the school nurse

What can parents and families do?
Listen. Make time to talk to your children and Listen.
Document the incident. Have students print out chat logs or FB postings.
Talk to a teacher you know, school counselor, social worker or administrator.

Copied from a Bullying Prevention Program prepared by the American Federation of Teachers.